Feb 10

Kian's physio's have just left our home. We had a meeting with his main physio, his TI and a physio from his special nursery. Kian was supposed to be at nursery today but he is a little unwell. It seems to be a bit of a cold but he is getting a little hot too. I have kept him off nursery to be on the safe side. The meeting was to discuss how things are and if we were happy with what service we are getting. At the beginning of our therapy journey I was not happy, but since we had our new physio, who we have had for almost 2 years things have greatly improved. She speaks to you with feeling and a caring attitude. Our first physio made us feel like Kian wasnt worth the bother. It is awful how many professionals, parents come across like that. The physio TI would come out every two weeks but we have now stopped that, and the main physio will come out to the home once a month. It has felt time to move on slightly.
We are waiting for Kian to be assessed for lycra. After seeing some fellow whs children using theratogs, braces etc I asked our physio about such for Kian. At the moment she feels that Kian is too good for lycra, which is what was suggested our local service supply in their budget. She feels that Kian is close to stepping, that it is not totally balance that is stopping him but confidence. I have a lot of respect for the opinion, but Im not sure. I am of the opinion that if there is something possible to help Kian then we should try it. We are going to try neoprene swim trunks to see if that makes a difference as they are meant to be similar.

Nursery is going well, I am looking to finding out about statements which guarentees your children accesses what they need. Kian's nursery is an assessment nursery so he accesses all the different therapies but his statement will be begun next year.

We think the hearing aids may be helping. Kian will sign baby and say, ah which has been progress. If he is eating and someone has said "what a mess", it has sounded like he has tried to copy. This has given me hope that Kian might one day say a word. Our genetic doctor told us that Kian will never speak sentences like you and I, but words are very possible. Let's hope. At his monday nursery, his keyworker has told us Kian does not sign as much but is making more sounds. I still do not like putting the hearing aids in, but I am hoping it will get easier. He wears them all day unless he is sleeping. We have a hearing test in two weeks. When we were at ENT, the doctor removed one of his grommets that were on their way out. The other is still in. He hopes because Kian's adnoids were removed that he may not need grommets again. We now go to a monthly group which is for children with hearing impairments. There is beautiful little girl who is profoundly deaf, she signs lots and is very clever. Then there is an almost ready to walk 9 month year old who has her little pink hearing aids. All the children were fantastic and their parents were great. I felt very comfortable meeting them all and I think it helped that the group are ran by the hearing impairment team. They have been one of the nicest teams I have come across.

I have become a member of the Steering group in our area. They aim to arrange 2 conferences a year for parents like myself to hear from professional, organisations and other parents. There is also alot of other work being done in our area to improve the lives of children and families with disabilities. I have become involved as there is so much that we have not been happy with as a family with a disabled child, but also we have felt let down by the services at times that I want to be involved to help make a difference for the future!